aaaaah! youtube

I stumbled upon a company: oyin handmade

That stumble led me to a search engine page with a pertaining youtube video link. I clicked upon the link. I watched the video, then farted around youtube, clicking on other video links.

I came across this one:



I don't like to leave youtube comments, so I'm going to post my thoughts here in the little intraweb corner I've cleaned out and decorated for myself.

Sista, why are you concerned about this? You're not alone. Obviously. There are quite a few youtube videos asking this very same question and another few responses from men. I don't know if you're feeling better about the issue two months later, but let me help you out with this tidbit of information: those that care don't matter and those that matter don't care.

Your hair is your hair. If it is beautiful to you, it is beautiful. Period. I've chopped my hair off a few times during this incarnation and the last time I did it knowing full-well many guys would stop hitting on me. Thank the gods for such an easy repellent!

My sista, the fact is that most of the men you randomly encounter aren't worth your time or energy. Be grateful that your hair keeps many of them away. It's like a sifter for life. Your own, personal Force Field.

Natural, Kinky Hair: the Final Fronteir.

Appreciate this reprieve from the lunacies of most males. And, if you are having a hard time being grateful that many time-wasters are now avoiding you, work on your self-esteem.